Is all good Gator, I thought I deleted my post or changed it, but evidently it wouldn't let me for some reason.
No hard feels from me. I'm not that much of a prude, and I didn't direct anything. And, I'll look up the Red Herring Fallacy later. LOL Like you said, in the absence of voice inflection and body language, words are easy to misinterpret. My post was not in "jest", but it wasn't meant to cause a stir either.
This place is too important to all of us to have any bad feelings. You're both still on my friend's list...hope that's ok.